Ric June 3, at Keep it up! Andrew Dowling June 3, at Jasmine August 24, at 2: When I was 51, I married my year-old Knight in Shining Armor and immediately had a midlife pregnancy scare. We lived incredibly happily ever after for 22 years until he died 2 years ago. They explain by saying they are younger than their age.
What does that even mean?!? Before investing another dime, I need to know how and if Stitch will address the mismatch? Do you have a hidden stash of active year old men who are seeking year-old companions? Or is it something information and eduction can address? Andrew Dowling August 24, at 2: Particularly for those seeking companionship rather than romance … I have many friends in the Stitch community who are 20 years my senior, while there is no way I could have said the same when I was Older men who want to find a young woman have plenty of other sites they can go to who cater to that.
The ones who are attracted to Stitch join us because they are looking for real people, shared interests and conversation just as much as any physical attraction. Jasmine August 25, at 6: Good grief!
Shirley September 21, at 9: I am attractive, 65, with health problems. All the men have health problems. My husband had prostate cancer. Because he is 73 ,impotent, every lady in FL. And, I see a lot of that on the dating sites I am on. Many older women looking for younger men — but reality is that most men are not looking for older women. Most men still want a younger woman — maybe 5 years younger, and someone that is at least somewhat physically attractive.
And, while companionship is great, you can join a local social club for companionship. They are everywhere. But then, I had many women ask me why I was not interested in marriage? They all said they would not date someone who is not open to marriage because their ultimate end goal was marriage and commitment. Carmen December 23, at 1: She is now in the world, not my home. I put my life on hold so long.. I have very long black hair, green eyes, attractive and a decent weight.
Have aged gracefully though no one believes me when I say I just turned I have nothing to hide, I look just like my most recent picture Sept Tell me more about what makes this a genuine site for older adults seeking companionship without commitment, willing to share thoughts and maybe have things in common to share.
Thank you Tom September 5, at By that I man firstly friendship to engage in being together for conversations of many topics, having visits to local places of interest, walking at interesting, venues, having a meal together even with friends.
However it has to be on a pleasant and positive mindset and not to unload baggage of the past. Surely fun and happiness should be foremost in our seventies.
Linda November 20, at 8: I agree with your entire approach. It takes time to develop a friendship and determine if basics are common. I am interested in omfortable mutual conversational in which I can learn, perhaps teach and have fun.
I just ran into this site. Where do you live? That is The Best medicine. This is my first time on talking to someone. Chambers December 3, at 2: When my ex-husband about 5 years younger left for a woman 20 years younger than myself, you can bet that was upsetting and revealing. At 60 when I was first divorced, online dating worked pretty well. These men all look for women years younger.
And meanwhile my ex lives in our old house he bought me out of and also a fabulous condo on the Florida coast.
No — life is not fair to mature women. Glen January 5, at 6: Life is not fair to mature women…so what girl? Get out their and fight the good fight. You do the best you can…i mean stay in all the time? Why in the hell do women or men have such a hard time eating alone at a restaurant? I never got that. I have dined alone with a boy and without more times.
Take a book or paper or planner so you have something to do if your insecure. I am also quite comfortable being with others including a man. Stay open minded as you have the choice to join in a group or not.
Have fun. You sound smart. Hang in there. No one ever said life would be fair. No one and it is not. Unfortunately it is especially not fair for the mature female. Anyone that says different has to have blinders on! Complete idiots. Sorry for being mean but it is true. Just remember that we get one time around on this planet…. Let us just observe the success of this and other sites. They definitely are not doing the service for free.
Can you imagine services that picked up a date for you back in the day? Haha…they would have been called something quite different. Steadfasr July 8, at 2: I do think there is a wide divide between what most people say and what really their criteria is on both sides of the street.
I think there is a lot selfishness and superficiality on both sides. I think a lot of people are very guarded after having been burned a few times. From a guys perspective, women telling them to show their feelings and them ridiculing them or worse using that knowledge to manipulate them makes a lot of men cynical and unwilling to make themselves vunerable. I am not saying there are not cads out there but I think more men at least before getting hurt a few times are more likely to love and want commitment.
That does not mean to trick anyone, but I had 24 years with a wonderful woman that was older than I but if you had just asked me at the beggining if I would like to spend a couple of decades with her I am sure i would have run the other way so fast all you would have seen was a swirl of air where I had been.
Now I could not imagine a life without her. But now I have to live one. The spiritual journey was wonderful and fulfiling. I feel sorry for people who only talk of movie and walks and dinners out etc..
As a matter of fact a lot of them think they got it. Let some one learn how nice you are to be around and see how he misses you when are not with him. Well that is my two bits of advice. I apologize if it is something that Lucy Van Pelt said in her booth and i just forgot where i heard it. Sometimes you have to cut the strings to the soul vampires in your life even when they are family. It may turn out to be a blessing for them too.
Miz Kitty March 6, at 8: For ex. They can not get their mind around that at a certain age the body slow down. The mind is will but the body is not.
Pretty pleez? And yet, that is exactly how most people approach the relationship market. In The Tao of Dating, I call this the picky buyer stance. There is a big difference between people in their 50s and those in their 70s, While you were dating full movie online free. My exact sentiments. Before investing another dime, I need to know how and if Stitch will address the mismatch? Anyone that says different has to have blinders on! Let some one learn how nice you are to be around and see how he misses you when are not with him. But now I have to live one.
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